Staying Sober This Christmas: A Clear-Headed Guide to Surviving the Season
- Sophie Horn
- 12 hours ago
- 2 min read
The festive season can be wonderful, but it can also be difficult for anyone trying to stay sober. Christmas comes with parties, pressure, late nights, and the unspoken expectation that everyone should be drinking. For people in recovery, or those simply wanting a clear head, December can feel less like a celebration and more like a test.
Staying sober doesn’t mean missing out. It just means approaching the season with intention, support, and a plan that keeps you grounded.
Here are a few simple ways to protect your wellbeing this season, curated by our Client Services Manager, Rob who is halfway into his 5th year of recovery.
1. Go to an AA Meeting, Even If You Feel “Fine”
AA meetings aren’t just for crisis moments.They can be anchors during times when everything else feels unstable.
December is full of emotional triggers: family stress, loneliness, grief, nostalgia, boredom, celebration. A meeting gives you a safe space to talk honestly, hear from others, and reset your mindset before things build up.
2. Stay Connected With People Who Get It
There is nothing more powerful than spending time with people who understand your experience. Staying sober is easier when you’re surrounded by others who are choosing the same path.
That might mean:
sober friends
recovery communities
online groups
supportive family
sponsors or mentors
3. Don’t Isolate Yourself
The festive season can be intense, but withdrawing to avoid temptation can make things worse. Isolation breeds loneliness, rumination, and emotional vulnerability... all of which feed cravings.
You don’t need to attend every party, but you do need to remain socially engaged with people who support your goals.
Even simple activities help:
a winter walk with a friend
a movie night
volunteering
cooking together
decorating the tree
Being around others reminds you that connection doesn’t have to involve alcohol.
4. Avoid People Who Trigger Your Bad Habits
Some people are fun. Some are destructive. Some will support your decision not to drink. Others will make it their mission to break you.
Protect your peace.
If you have friends, colleagues or relatives who pressure you, minimise your struggles or act offended when you don’t drink …it is absolutely okay to say no to their invitations.
Seeking Support
If you are struggling this festive season, reach out to Montrose for support. We provide a range of services to guide you through, from confidential one-to-one sessions to residential retreat detoxes.
Call us on 01433 350 500
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